We’ve settled down to a nice comfortable balance. It’s not too extreme, just a cognisant understanding between us as to who’s the boss of the household – and that’s V.
There’s no need for words, no games, no manipulation – just an ordinary relationship where V is in charge.
Recently I’ve had no need to seek out other blog sites. In fact, I’ve lost a lot of interest in “the scene”. I guess that’s because I’m happy in our relationship and so is V.
She gives me orders and I jump. Sometimes I detect an amusing smile from V when she tells me to do something and I immediately spring to the task, as though she finds it comical that I’m so under her thumb.
She disciplines me once a week by thrashing me with a leather paddle and a whip – more for my satisfaction than hers. She also allows me to worship her body once a week which includes urination, ass worship and sex.
For the rest of the time it’s whatever she wants, she gets.
But that’s the way I love it. I LOVE being her slave! And she’s now accepting of the fact that it’s the natural order of things in our marriage.