My want is to worship you, to serve and obey you, to always put your needs above mine. You are my superior. You are strong, intelligent, sensitive and compassionate. You are Woman and you are beautiful.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Settling into FLR

We’ve settled down to a nice comfortable balance. It’s not too extreme, just a cognisant understanding between us as to who’s the boss of the household – and that’s V.

There’s no need for words, no games, no manipulation – just an ordinary relationship where V is in charge.

Recently I’ve had no need to seek out other blog sites. In fact, I’ve lost a lot of interest in “the scene”. I guess that’s because I’m happy in our relationship and so is V.

She gives me orders and I jump. Sometimes I detect an amusing smile from V when she tells me to do something and I immediately spring to the task, as though she finds it comical that I’m so under her thumb.

She disciplines me once a week by thrashing me with a leather paddle and a whip – more for my satisfaction than hers. She also allows me to worship her body once a week which includes urination, ass worship and sex.

For the rest of the time it’s whatever she wants, she gets.

But that’s the way I love it. I LOVE being her slave! And she’s now accepting of the fact that it’s the natural order of things in our marriage.

4 comments:

Severin said...

Sounds like you've finally managed to achieve the life you want, need. Best wish for it continuing.

licking said...

It seems you are happy now.
But for me it still seems it is all about you. Somehow I do not feel from your blog that she is really happy.
You are talking only about your fantazies.
What is the most exciting fantazy for her?
Are you 100% sure she is really happy?
Are you 100% sure she does not do this because she loves you and wants to make you happy?

myqueensandy said...

Reading this post, I'm happy for you. It seems any hesitation or conflict your Wife had has disappeared. I hope it you both found what makes life fun!

subservire said...

licking,
If I'm honest with myself, I would have to agree with you. Femdom or FLR is not really V's scene. Yes, she has gone into this because of me. But for the moment, she does seem happy. I'm sure deep down (or maybe not so deep down) she would rather a traditional relationship. In fact, at times she would prefer me to be assertive, dominant even. However, that's not me, and I'm extremely appreciative that V has compromised her own fantasies to accommodate mine.

Maybe she'll soon tire of this lifestyle - there are signs that she is starting to - but for now we do seem more content than we have during the past year, and that goes for both of us.