My want is to worship you, to serve and obey you, to always put your needs above mine. You are my superior. You are strong, intelligent, sensitive and compassionate. You are Woman and you are beautiful.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Neighbourly Thoughts

I've been thinking about some of the comments Wayne, my neighbour, has made to me at times.

It's not uncommon for him to refer to his wife as "the boss" or to himself as a "house bitch". He's never shown any overtly submissive signs.

His wife is a psychologist and the main bread winner. Wayne is a psych nurse and works three days a week. On Wednesdays and Saturdays his wife "allows" him to play golf.

He does most of the housework, cooking, cleaning, clothes washing etc.

It appears they lead a Female Led relationship, although I don't know whether they acknowledge this, whether it's a conscious role and whether it extends to the bedroom. It would be an amazing coincidence if our neighbours had successfully achieved the type of relationship I've only dreamed about.

Unfortunately it's not the sort of topic I feel I can bring up with Wayne - it could backfire dramatically.

But still.... There may be a way it can be approached without giving away my own fantasies.


helpmate hubby said...

i defenitely think you could broach the subject with him, just be careful and ge to know him as a really good friend first.

cagedone said...

Funny I was at a street party last night, and I swear this guy there had a CB3K under his pants.

I managed to say 3000 obviously at one point, I am pretty sure he squirmed but I am not sure. nor am i sure where they live...we have a long street and I never seen them she is a divorce and he is new boyfriend.

Weird tho how I am drawing a conclusion presently my wife is the one that needs to be led, but its kinda like she enjoys the veto power....