I've been thinking about some of the comments Wayne, my neighbour, has made to me at times.
It's not uncommon for him to refer to his wife as "the boss" or to himself as a "house bitch". He's never shown any overtly submissive signs.
His wife is a psychologist and the main bread winner. Wayne is a psych nurse and works three days a week. On Wednesdays and Saturdays his wife "allows" him to play golf.
He does most of the housework, cooking, cleaning, clothes washing etc.
It appears they lead a Female Led relationship, although I don't know whether they acknowledge this, whether it's a conscious role and whether it extends to the bedroom. It would be an amazing coincidence if our neighbours had successfully achieved the type of relationship I've only dreamed about.
Unfortunately it's not the sort of topic I feel I can bring up with Wayne - it could backfire dramatically.
But still.... There may be a way it can be approached without giving away my own fantasies.