My want is to worship you, to serve and obey you, to always put your needs above mine. You are my superior. You are strong, intelligent, sensitive and compassionate. You are Woman and you are beautiful.

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Looking for a Button

I’d like to believe there is at least one button I can push which would assist in developing V’s dominance over me.

I haven’t found it yet.

As I’ve said in the past, she enjoys me doing most of the work around the house. She also likes it when I do what she wants me to do. So in some ways she likes to control me. But it’s not a sexual thing for V. In fact, I don’t think she has any sexual interest whatsoever in dominating me.

So it’s a matter of finding a button somewhere which will have some sexual connotation to her.

I don’t know if it’s possible. I don’t know if I can identify within V any association to link domination with sexuality.

I’ll keep trying.


Bonnie said...

I don't know if there is a button. for me it's always came's part of me, but I do know some activities bring my Domme parts more to the foreground.

Maybe, (just an idea) work more on what you have, things that you've found that do work..and the rest might follow
wish you luck.

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web said...

Since the two of you have been together for some time, I am sure that you know the "buttons" that really turn her on during vanilla sex. Try doing those from a submissive stance. Ease into it slowly until they are totally done from that submissive place and let her warm up to it being done in that manner.

Polyfetishist said...

Something like the Dominant Divas book that approaches this strictly as a pleasant sex game for couples might work.

It is on the far end from Sutton, Abernathy and the like.