My want is to worship you, to serve and obey you, to always put your needs above mine. You are my superior. You are strong, intelligent, sensitive and compassionate. You are Woman and you are beautiful.

Monday, December 18, 2006

Small Steps

Tonight we were lying on the couch watching TV. Well, V was lying and I was sitting next to her. Then, without saying anything, she lay her feet on my crotch. I took up the cue and started massaging her ankles, toes and arches. After about 15 minutes she said “don’t stop. That feels great. Then she said “I think I’ll keep you”.

That’s all. Small steps.


faninho said...

Well, you are lucky. You learned: take your time. That is the most important thing.
It is fun by itself.
"How To Introduce Your Wife.." by Elise S.: Go step by step. Don't push. Never.
My wife wouldn't accept the book either (the cover is really the opposite of what she could take). She once said similar things to me the first time I was acting / speaking "too submissive".
It is like that. Wives like to be served- and like to let you do anything around the house. But rather by a strong king or prince or knight than by a slave. You do it with a smile -for her and not because you are weak. Slaves seem to be weak and women want strong boys
But: the more submissive in that sense you are, the more dominant she gets. That is the rule I found out to be true.
I liked that humor appearing when V said: I think I'll keep you. She will be finding her own way to the topic it seems. That is the best option.

It is a long way. I think you are on it in a good way.

subservire said...

You're right. So far I have been lucky. But I can't help thinking that I've been particularly lucky that V is still interested in progressing along this path DESPITE all the mistakes I've made. I'm sure many other females would have given up on their male partners under similar circumstances.
I have to learn not to rush. That's a recurring fault with my nature. I tend to go head-on into things with passion. I become driven and totally pre-occupied.
V is very different to me. She's sensible and cautious.
Anyway, thanks for the encouragement and the good advice.